Gabriela & Henry | A crypt at bleeding heart WEDDING

30.04.22


It was such an honour to be able to capture Gabriela & Henry’s magical day. Here’s their story…

 


Why did you pick your venue, and what makes it special to you?

St Etheldreda's Church is the closest Catholic Church to us. It was very important for Gaby to get married in a Catholic Church and during the Spring 2021 lockdowns we discovered the church and fell in love with its beauty. The pub (Ye Olde Mitre) is a historic pub close by. Some of our favorite memories in London as a couple have taken place in these old historic & well preserved places., so sharing that type of a venue with our friends and family is really important.  Lastly, the Crypt venue also has a level of historical significance. Compared to the US & Mexico, the age and stories associated with these places is almost unimaginable. The idea that for centuries people have been sharing weddings, parties, and celebrations in these spaces really makes them special.

It's a real honour to have been chosen to capture your special day - thank you! We would love to know why you chose us - what is it about our work that you like?

Andy, we felt like you approached your work with professionalism & a style that aligned with how we envisioned our day to be captured. The idea of you being able to capture in a subtle way without breaking the moments people are having is truly important. The examples we saw on your website aligned with the emotional pull we hope to feel when we watch our own wedding day video & share it with our family & friends.

What is important in life to you?

Henry - I want to live a life of purpose. I want to be part of my family, my friends, my community. I want to feel connected to those closest to me. I enjoy solving interesting problems & as long as I need to work, I hope to be able to work in a manner that keeps me engaged, challenged, & able to maintain the relationships most meaningful to me. 
Gaby-  Family, friends, giving back/ sharing and being present - whether a trip to a new country, a walk in the sun or  going to a gig!

What is a typical Sunday/day off together like for you?

A typical Sunday starts with a wakeup without an alarm clock (sleeping in if needed). We usually get to the gym in the morning and relax in the sauna & steamroom after a run (Gaby) or swim (Henry). We usually cook breakfast / brunch and watch the news as we eat it & plan the day.  We typically go for a long walk somewhere in the city, either just roaming through the streets, meeting up with friends to catch up, and occasionally heading to a theatre show, art exhibit, or some other event. We typically make it back to the apartment and if we haven't eaten, cook dinner before unwinding with a TV show or movie & a tea.

How did you meet each other?

Gaby & Henry met on a dating app in 2016. After a bit of chat over the app, they agreed to meet up on the Thames in Fulham at a restaurant called the Crabtree on a sunday afternoon. The two of us started talking and talking and after the meal continued wandering along the river until well past both of their bedtimes. What was expected to be a quick "get to know you" date turned out to be the last first date & last first kiss either of them had again.

How about the proposal? Tell us everything! :-)

During the lockdown in Feb 2021, Henry had arranged a special valentines day celebration for Gaby. Henry kept it all a secret and just told her to dress up for the evening. Given that every restaurant was closed, Henry decided to  arrange a "semi-assembled" italian meal from "Pasta Evangelists". He transformed his office area into a white tablecloth dining experience, with a full picture slideshow & accompanying music of the past 5 years dating Gaby. When Gaby walked into the room she was completely surprised and the meal was fantastic. As the dessert came, the soundtrack reached a special song for the two of us, and Henry got down on one knee and proposed. Gaby said yes, and the celebration began, calling friends & family and having video calls to share the good news. 
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Why did you choose each other over anyone else?

Gaby- When I first met Henry one of the things that I  absolutely loved - beside the great conversation - is his way of seeing the world. Full of kindness,  dreams and open to experiences. It makes me feel like the luckiest person to be able think of a life together.   Henry -  I've never felt so at ease with another person. After all the time, memories, and adventures together, I couldn't imagine going through the rest of my life without Gaby.

How do you think your partner makes you better?

Henry - Gaby constantly reminds me to enjoy the journey and not focus on the destination. With how close she is with her parents and siblings, it makes me remember how great our families are and I spend more time talking with my parents & brother as a result. Her kindness towards others reminds me that we live in a community and I make a point to ensure I'm giving back as well. I feel content, happy, & satisfied & appreciate what we have as a couple as something special & unique. 
Gaby- Henry  has provided with such a unique space for me to thrive and exceed at my goals, he inspires me, supports me and makes me feel safe. With him by my side I feel like we can conquer anything and it's a feeling I hadn't experience before.

What part of marriage do you think will be the most challenging?

Henry - don't know what part but I expect there will be highs & lows. If we're fortunate enough to have kids, I think that will be an inevitable change both when they are born & when they leave the house to pursue their own dreams.  
Gaby- The most challenging part will likely be changes coming up - whether its kids, moving cities or new jobs. However, I think as in previous stages, we learn how to adapt to new realities

What's the one thing you've never done but dream of being able to do one day?

Henry - I've not had a child, but I dream about being a father & raising a child with Gaby. 
Gaby- Family! I loved growing up in a house with siblings & school friends coming in an out and hoped one day to have my own

What makes your partner unique?

Henry - I have never met someone who so fully accepts me for who I am as a person. She sees the best in me & brings out my strengths. She makes my life feel full & complete. 
Gaby-  The feeling of love and safety I have when I am with Henry is something unique. Nothing beats the feeling of pure happiness in everyday things - like cooking brunch together or our long walks
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If you could describe your partner in 5 words, what would they be?

Henry - Gaby is loving, loyal, genuine, determined, & empathetic 
Gaby- Henry is loving, supportive, fun, ambitious & kind

Tell us about your wedding plans so far - anything you would like to mention (including fears, what excites you, etc.)?

Henry - I'll be thrilled to be able to call Gaby my wife. I'm so excited to share the day with my family & hers and have us all become one family. Given the language & geographic distances, its incredibly rare for all of us to meet and be in the same place. The same goes for our friends who have all come from different corners of the world & stages in our life. 
Gaby- I am looking forward to our wedding day because of  how meaningful the day will be to us, our families and friends - they will get to experience the city we call home, and be able to witness how happy and lucky we are. To share with them all this is exciting and I am sure it will be a memory of a lifetime.

What sort of music do you like, and who do you listen to on a regular basis?

Gaby- I love music & even better if live - my favourite gender is indie rock ---- anything like The National, Snow Patrol, Future Islands. So I will be constantly eyeing who will be playing in London specially over summer.  
Henry - similar to Gaby, when relaxing, 60's/70's folk & pop music (Simon & Garfunkel, Beatles) or indie folk type music (iron & wine, sigor ros, Sufjan Stevens). When I have a bit more energy something with a bit more of a beat (Killers, Mumford & Sons, Bleachers) but I also love getting exposed to new sounds & styles...nothing on repeat for too long.

In terms of style, look and feel, how would you summarise your wedding day?

Our wedding will be a celebration of our time in England through the eyes of two people that have grown to call England their home. The locations are uniquely historical places,  while we hope to incorporate elements of both our native countries in the music, speeches, & dances. The ambience will be formal, but relaxed at the same time. We don't want it to feel "stuffy, scripted, or hectic". With luck it will be an afternoon in the sun eating & drinking and evolving into a night of singing & dancing.

Finally... why are you marrying each other?!? :-)

Henry - marrying Gaby for love & to let her know I'm there for her for the long haul. 
Gaby-  Henry is the love of my life 
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